GLOSSARY OF TERMS USED TO DISCRIBE BDSM

BDSM GLOSSARY

This glossary of BDSM (bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, masochism) terms defines terms commonly used in the BDSM community.

A

Adult baby – Adult Babies is a sexual fetish of adults of all genders who take on the role of babies or young children. Fetishes for adult babies are often sexual, but can be non-sexual and the behavior may include drinking from a bottle, eating baby food, or wearing diapers.

Age play ‚Äď

Anal sex – Anal sex also called ”Greek” is the act of penetrating the anus and is practiced in heterosexual, homosexual and bisexual relationships.

Anal play ‚ÄstAnal play is a term used for various forms of sexual activity that involve stimulating the anus. Anal play can include anal sex, anal fisting, anal finger penetration, anal beads, strap-on, dildos or vibrators. Anyone of any gender or sexual orientation can give, receive and enjoy anal play.

Animal roleplay –¬†

Ass worship ‚Äď

B

B & D –¬†

BDSM – BDSM is an a combination abbreviation for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. BDSM is a term used to cover a wide range of activities involving fetish and kink, such as bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism.

Ball busting

Balloon fetish

Blindfold

Body worship

Bondage РBondage is the act of one person restraining another for sexual pleasure. A partner may be physically restrained in a variety of ways, including the use of rope, cuffs, bondage tape, or self-adhering bandage.

Boot worship

C

Caning –¬†

Cock and ball torture (CBT) – CBT is penis torture or dick torture is a sexual activity involving application of pain or constriction to the penis or testicles. This may involve directly painful activities, such as wax play, genital spanking, squeezing, ball-busting, genital flogging, urethral play, tickle torture, erotic electrostimulation, kneeing or kicking.

Corporal punishment

Corsets

Cross dressing

D

Degradation

Discipline

Dominant

Dominatrix

Dungeon

E

Electro play –¬†

F

Facesitting

Femdom

Fetish

Financial domination

Fisting

Flogging

Foot fetish –¬†Foot fetish, foot partialism, foot worshipping or podophilia, is a pronounced sexual interest in feet. A foot fetish is the most common sexual fetish for otherwise non-sexual objects or body parts. A foot fetishist may enjoy touching and kissing and licking feet, as well as sucking the toes. Extensions of this fetish include shoes, high heels and boots, socks, odour fetishism and tickling.¬†

Forced BI

Forced feminisation

Forced masturbation

G

Golden shower –¬†Golden showers, also know as ”Watersports”, is any play that involves urine (drinking it, playing with it, peeing on someone), usually for sexual pleasure. In BDSM services, watersports are often used as an act of humiliation

H

Hair fetish

Hardsports

Humiliation

I

Impact play

Interrogation

L

Latex

Leather

M

Medical fantasies

Mistress

Mummification

N

Needle play

Nipple torture

P

Pantyhose fetish

Pegging

Pony play – Pony play, is a role playing in which one acts as a horse or trainer of said human pony.

Public exhibitionism

R

Rope bondage

S

S&M – S&M, also known as Sadomasochism or SM

Sadistic

Shibari

Shoe worship

Sissification

Sissy

Slave

Slave training

Slut training

Spanking

Sploshing

Stocking fetish

Strap on

Submissive (SUB)

Suspension bondage

Switch

T

Tease and denial

Tickling

Tie and tease

V

Voyeurism – Voyeurism Deriving sexual pleasure from watching others engage in sex or other actions usually considered to be of a private nature

Verbal humiliation – Verbal humiliation is a type of erotic humiliation typically wherein the participant is verbally demeaned for sexual arousal by the dominant.

W

Watersports –¬†Watersports, also know as ”Golden shower”, is any play that involves urine (drinking it, playing with it, peeing on someone), usually for sexual pleasure. In BDSM services, watersports are often used as an act of humiliation

Wax play –¬†¬†Wax play is a form of sensual interaction in which a person drips warm or hot wax onto their partner‚Äôs naked body. Playing with wax is to introduce a slight burning sensation in the skin, which causes a rush of adrenaline, which increases arousal.

Wrestling –¬†Wrestling is a fetish or kink where the dominant can physically dominate his subordinates to let them know who is in charge.